I am hygiene, confident and down for anything either if its a role play or something that you fantasise about. Also there's something I look in my clients as well. KEEP IT CLEAN On a very basic level, it means that you should shower, brush your teeth, and take care of basic hygiene needs before meeting up. This is just a common courtesy that makes it more enjoyable for everyone involved. It also means that you should do your best to arrive sober. Not drunk, not high, or the party may be over before it even gets started. Finally, it means plan on wearing a condom. Always. I am more concerned about my sexual health, and whether it be for oral or penetrative, Remember, birth control, including condoms, aren’t just for preventing pregnancy. Whether you’re paying for sex, engaging in traditional sex, or a combination, it’s worth considering getting a prescription for PrEP, an HIV-prevention pill that will help alleviate at least some of the risks sexual activity presents.